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For years I chased after happiness, thinking it was something I could win, purchase, or simple wrestle out of life if I only managed well and worked hard. My experience was; no matter how hard I worked, true long-term happiness still eluded me. Even though I would find some sense of happiness in my profession or relationships, the feelings were short lived and it was onto the next big conquest.

If you’ve been wondering how to find happiness; maybe you should think about taking a different approach. As the saying goes, “if nothing changes then nothing changes.” Something I have discovered is that true long-lasting happiness is a by-product of living a life in tune with the highest ideals we have for ourselves. Take a moment and think about who you really want to be. This does not mean rich, famous, or successful professionally, what we’re really talking about here is character traits. Do you strive to be more altruistic or less selfish? That’s certainly something to strive for and I can tell you from experience, the closer you get to living up to those ideals the more inner happiness you will achieve.

Long-lasting happiness comes with finding an inner peace within ourselves that can sustain us through all emotional hardships and triumphs. Finding happiness can be misleading; we don’t actually find happiness. It is a by-product of living a well lived life! Strive towards your ideal self and you will no longer have to chase after happiness; it will find you.

There’s a great quote by Gandhi which says, “Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.” That sure sounds simple enough right? As you probably know, it isn’t that simple. Think about how your inner voice talks to everyday; is it constantly telling you you’re not good enough? Take a moment and listen to this inner voice and what it’s telling you. Now think about how you talk to and motivate a close friend; are they similar or different? Meaning, do you talk to yourself as you would your best friend? Are you kind, caring, and supportive of yourself? If not, that’s one place you can start towards finding the inner peace that is so helpful in finding happiness.

Determine what you’re ideal self is and start taking action that will get you closer to that goal. As you work towards this goal, make a point to be more supportive and kind to yourself. These are just a few simple things you can start doing right now to increase the chances of happiness finding you!

Losing weight is a major concern among many people. And there’s good reason for that, too. Obesity is a growing problem in the American society with approximately 127 million adults overweight; 60 million of those classified as obese, and 9 million severely obese. With numbers like this, it’s no wonder there are so many supplements and programs being forced on you, promising to teach you how to lose weight in 2 weeks to a month. A lot of the things you see on TV are false – they are just there to get your money. Things like diet pills and food programs claiming to lose 30 pounds in a month are most likely scams. Then you have to consider the fact that all you see are skinny super-models, and you find yourself wishing you looked more like that!

Realizing all that it takes is not just diet pills, and also that it is very unhealthy to lose weight quickly. That is because when you lose weight fast, you are actually losing muscle. You can guess this isn’t very good for your body! However, not all hope is lost. Just taking it steady is the best course of action, with most professionals believing that 2 pounds a week is a healthy achievable amount to aim for.

It is understandable to want to look and feel better. It is important to remember that you will never be that skinny supermodel, no matter what you do. You will have a more happy and enjoyable life if you just accept who you are. That doesn’t mean you have to stay fat. There is a way to work out how to lose weight without pills, but the healthy way. And that is, you guessed it, diet and exercise!

You will want to avoid fast food places, sweets, sodas, and animal fats. You should remember that completely cutting food groups from you diet is also not advisable. What you want to do is balance everything you eat. Take it all into moderation. Having too much of one thing will most likely go awry, either going straight to your hips or right to your heart. Simply watching what you eat, and how much of it you eat can help your diet and health.

Any form of exercise along with the right diet will have you seeing a new you in the mirror. Even simple movements like push-ups, sit-ups, or even lifting a can over and over is better than nothing. Ideally, you would want to do something physical like swimming, walking, or hiking. Anything that is appealing to you that you can be comfortable with doing every day for the rest of your life. Just keep at it, and slowly move forward. Although you won’t manage to lose weight in 2 weeks, you will most certainly succeed in the long term if you make the effort.

Like to fish but stuck traveling from city to city each week to earn a living? Get a mini fishing rod to take with you. Think about it. Many urban areas have access to small lakes in their park system where there is at least a bluegill or two that will give you a bite. And lest we denigrate the lowly bluegill, it is a fine game fish in its own right. ound for pound it will outfight a largemouth bass. Hook a hand-sized bluegill with light fishing tackle and you have the makings of a good time fishing as a way to unwind from your work day on the road.

It’s one thing to research and find a good urban lake in which to fish, quite another to lug around a conventional fishing rod and reel and other gear to take advantage of an opportunity to fish while on the road doing business. You can find a mini fishing rod that closes up into a pen shape that is only 8 inches long. This same pen can extend to 37 inches with a reel that inserts and screws on easily. Throw this mini rod and reel combination into your briefcase along with one or two light spinning lures and you are ready to take advantage of good fishing water that might lie between your hotel and out-of-town workplace.

When you do decide to turn into the park to go fishing, all you have to to is unscrew the cap on the pen, expand the rod, attach the reel by inserting between the designated grooves on the pen, secure the inserted reel with a twist screw, tie on your lures and start casting. Oh, be sure and take off your coat and tie and roll up your sleeves – work is over for the day!

Not only is the mini fishing rod the perfect fishing equipment for those unexpected gifts of time and place when you stumble across a good fishing spot in a strange place, they are quite inexpensive. Depending upon the design and function, mini fishing rods can range in price from $8.99 up to almost $40. The price really seems inexpensive when you consider that the smallest equipment design enables you to comfortably carry a fishing rod and reel in an accessory or coat pocket; a fishing rod and reel that can expand into equipment that is able to catch fish up to 4 pounds.

And don’t think there are not spur-of-the-moment opportunities to catch fish. Times where you wished that you had a mini fishing rod. What if the business trip requires you to fly in or stay over a weekend? What if that business hotel room is just yards away from an accessible bank to a river-walk for its guests? What if you find out that the hotel allows guests to fish from their river-walk and that some of the best stocked rainbow trout fishing in the city is provided there?

What if a park’s bluegill pond was an easy drive with closely mowed, well-kept banks? What if going fishing was as simple as going to dinner or a movie after a day in the office out of town?

These are the times to have a mini fishing rod.

Are you looking for some easy weight loss tips to help you lose weight but have found nothing that makes sense to you? Well worry no longer, as you have found the right place. We are dedicated to helping you learn how to lose weight the easy way. You can do it without spending a dime if you so choose. Losing weight is a very personal commitment. You may even be self conscious about your weight. Well, there is only one way to change it! And that is with hard work, sweat, and tears.

The first thing to do is easy; find out exactly what you want to do. You are the only one who can figure this out. Do you want to lose weight and get in shape? How exactly are you going to accomplish this? These are questions you must be thinking about, since you are the only one who knows what is going on with your body, and what exactly you want to accomplish. You must figure out the right path and mold it to your life.

After you have a goal set in mind, you must work hard, very hard, to make it a reality. You can take as long as you want to to achieve your goal, but once you start, you can’t afford to give up. Do so and your dreams are never going to materialize, and you will always be overweight and out of shape. It will be the hardest when you first start, since fitting all of this into your life will be a difficult transition to make. You must take it steady and slow, and think it through very thoroughly. You do not want surprises when dealing with something such as losing weight.

The key to success is a good plan, and of course actually doing it. Knowing when and where to get help is also a benefit. Everyone always needs help at some point, just being able to accept it is the tough part. If you have a unique problem or other health factors, I would strongly urge you to contact professional help before making any change to your diet or life style. In order to lose weight you want to take the safest route possible, as this is also the one that has the highest chance of success.

Remember, you are the only one who can help yourself lose weight. And you do that through knowledge and commitment. No one else can lose your weight for you, aside from having expensive surgeries. Just concentrate, keeping pushing forward, and have fun in the process. Weight loss is easy if you are willing to make it easy.

Beautiful Skin is a guest post by Sandra Mallory from The Glamour Zone

Beautiful skin belongs to those who understand the principles of natural skin care. There are some very definite steps to take to obtain a clear, smooth complexion. The first and most important step to take is to learn and implement an effective facial cleansing routine. Do not skimp on cost in this area. Purchase the highest quality facial cleanser you can afford to buy and keep plenty on hand. The soap we use for general bathing is just too harsh to be used on the face without causing damage.

Here is the procedure for a gentle yet thorough facial cleansing:

1. Wash your hands thoroughly with regular soap and rinse thoroughly.
2. Splash your face with very warm water to open your pores.
3. Apply your chosen facial cleanser with your fingers and gently massage your face, spreading the cleanser over the entire surface. The key here is to be gentle. The facial cleanser is designed to do the job well and there is no need to rub and scrub. In fact, rubbing and scrubbing will only damage the skin.
4. Splash water of the same temperature from step 2 onto your face to rinse off the cleanser.
5. Splash cold water on your face to close the pores.
6. Let your face air dry – do not use a towel to dry off.

This facial cleansing should be done at least twice a day, right before makeup application and always right before retiring for the night.

The second step to beautiful skin is to wear makeup every day. But not just any makeup, as some contain harsh chemicals that can dry out or otherwise damage your skin. Choose the highest quality natural makeup your budget will allow. The sun protection factor (SPF) of the foundation should be at least 15 – 20. I recommend mineral powders over any type of liquid cosmetics due to their higher percentage of natural ingredients and ease in application and removal. It is important to learn how to put on makeup properly so that your skin is well protected from the elements.

Here are the steps for properly applying makeup to enhance the health of your facial skin:

1. Cleanse your face thoroughly first, following the facial cleansing steps listed earlier in this article.
2. Immediately after your skin has completely air-dried from the facial cleansing, apply a high quality facial cream to soften up your skin. Apply gently – do not rub the face. If you find yourself rubbing your skin to help the cream be absorbed by your skin, then you have bought an inferior facial cream.
3. Follow the makeup manufacturer instructions for applying the foundation. In the case of powdered mineral foundation you will be using a brush to apply the foundation, such as a kabuki brush.
4. Next comes any concealer you feel you might need, followed by lip color, eye shadow, eyeliner and blush. The important principle to follow is less is more – the less makeup you add on top of your foundation, the healthier your skin will be. Apply as little as possible to achieve the look you desire. Never rub the face during application of makeup. If using the recommended mineral makeup, use good quality mineral powder application brushes.

The third step to acquiring beautiful skin is to make a weekly facial mask a part of your routine. If you have the funds, reserve a weekly hour at a local day spa and let the professionals give your face the attention it deserves. If that is not in your budget, search in books or magazines or online for recipes for facial cleansing masks and prepare them yourself. Why not invite your close friends over for a spa day at your house and share the fun!

The remaining steps to achieving beautiful skin are the standard points of advice you have been hearing your whole life: eat healthy food, get plenty of exercise and get enough sleep.

Follow these simple steps to beautiful skin and soon your friends will be asking you to share your personal beauty secrets!

All curtains are expensive so it is important not to make major mistakes in your choice and have to buy your curtains again. With kitchen curtain colors you can not go too far wrong but do beware of making these errors when making your decision:-

1. Don’t Be Too Formal

   Kitchens are informal rooms and so kitchen curtains should match that informality. If you choose a very formal grand pattern then it will not look good in your kitchen (unless you live in Buckingham Palace and have a kitchen to match of course).

2. Don’t Get the Proportions Wrong

   If you have quite small windows (which is usually the case in a kitchen) then choose a small scale pattern otherwise you will make your windows seem even smaller and you will not get the effect of the whole pattern. If you have found a fabric you love with a large pattern think about having it made into a blind instead. You will then be able to see the fabric properly when the blind is down.

3. Don’t Be Too Dull

   If you have a stainless steel and white kitchen don’t get curtains which are plain gray or white. Inject a little interest with other colors. And if you have a wooden kitchen with beige tiles and beige flooring, don’t buy kitchen curtains in beige unless you want your kitchen to look the dullest of rooms. Use these neutral colors as a background for the fabric rather than as the sole color.

4. Don’t Get the Wrong Tone

   Colors are predominantly warm or cool in tones. If you kitchen is mainly warm tones then choose curtains in that tone and ditto with a cool tone kitchen. Warm tones are fall shades, cream and yellow whereas cool tones are bright and clear and include the neutral colors of white, black and gray.

5. Don’t Clash

   The colors in your kitchen curtains should not fight against the other colors in the room particuarly those near the window. Getting the color tone right helps of course but there are warm colors which clash with each other and cool tones which don’t go so well together either so you need to consider this too when choosing colors.

6. Don’t Be Afraid to Take Risks

   If you find a kitchen curtain fabric that you absolutely fall in love with then don’t worry that it is a bit unusual. It can be the making of your kitchen. Most of us play it safe when it comes to our home decoration, but it is the things with a big impact which we remember and love about a home.

If you get into the mindset of an interior designer when choosing items for your home you will find yourself making much better choices and getting a better result at the end of your decorating project. If you have decided to buy a red rug, you might ask yourself how a designer would go about making the right choice. Here are a few things that he or she would think about:-

1. Is Red the Right Choice?

   You may have chosen to buy a red area rug simply because you like the color red. There is nothing wrong with that but you do have to make sure that red is right for the room. As it is such a bold color choice it is rarely right for a romantic style bedroom or country living room, for example, unless mixed with a lot of another color such as white.

2. Which Color Red?

   There are many shades of red so your designer would be looking at whether an orange-red hue is right for your room or a more bluey-red such as cherry as well as bright red or a dark burgundy red. You will find every color in rugs so no need to worry especially if you look online rather than relying on your local store.

3. Where will the Rug Go?

   The position of your rug will affect both the size and shape you should choose. For example, a hearth rug needs to be small and rectangular or half moon in shape whereas a long narrow hall needs a long runner rug. The main thing to watch out for is that you do not buy a rug which is too small in the interests of economy. It will just look out of place. If you’re going add an item which has impact (as red rugs do) it should be big enough to have that impact.

4. Style of Rug

   Rugs generally fall in one of two camps. You have contemporary red rugs with bold designs, colors and textures and you have more traditional red rugs (such as Chinese and Persian rugs) with more subtle patterns and multiple colors. And, of course, your rug (and room) should fit into one style or the other.

5. Quality

   A designer would advise you to buy the best red rug you can afford and hopefully that equates to a rug of good quality rather than one which is cheap and will wear out in no time. If you cannot afford the type of rug which will enhance your home just now, why not wait and save up until you can. You won’t regret it.

The most frequently asked question by those who smoke and are contemplating switching to an e cig is a funny one: “is it safe to use an e cig instead of tobacco?” To answer, let’s be practical. If you are a smoker, as I was for the past 10 years, and every time you reach for a cigarette you see the warning on the package that says “smoking kills” or other such enticing slogans, then you already know that what you inhale each day is dangerous, that nicotine is not a healthy or safe substance, and yet despite all that, you continue to do it. Hoping that someone will officially state that that choosing an alternate way to introduce nicotine into your body is safe will probably not happen. It is up to you to decide if inhaling toxic tobacco smoke with nicotine, or inhaling nicotine vapor, is how you wish to get your dose, without anyone else’s seal of approval.

E Cigarette Facts

Here are the facts: an e cig is a new concept and the long-term effects or benefits of using an electronic cigarette versus tobacco are unknown. Just how new are e cigs? Well they were only developed in 2003 in Beijing, later becoming the baby of a company called Golden Dragon Group and then further developed by Ruyan in 2004, marketed only in China and not even brought to Europe until 2006, and the media only took notice in early 2007. Since then , about 300 million people have tried the e-cigarette, and many personal stories reflect that some of these people have noticed an improvement in their overall health. However, the use of them is still largely untested in a clinical environment.

Are E Cigarettes Endorsed by the WHO?

No. But then neither are cigarettes. They are not an officially recognized means to quit smoking by the WHO or by the Electronic Cigarette Association, but that does not take away from the fact that, on an individual level, many people have used them to minimize their nicotine intake and feel better, some have even given up the habit and use vapor without nicotine at all.

What does the FDA (Food and Drug Administration) in the USA say?

It’s not surprising that they are not in favor. Why? Because they fear an endorsement may cause young people to take up smoking using e cigarettes. That is a valid concern and may justify the FDA not endorsing the product, but please take into account that if someone smokes a pack a day and inhales copious amounts of tobacco smoke and nicotine, and then chooses to switch to an electronic cigarette, this is an entirely different picture than someone who is young and innocent and may be about to take up the habit. The benefits experienced by a long time addict making a switch may be quickly noticeable. Logically, it is unwise to recommend that a young person begin to smoke, be it with a vaporized e cig or a tobacco cigarette. So consider why it is not endorsed by the WHO or approved by the FDA and then decide if you, as a regular smoker, would like to try making the switch.

Although you may find that your FICO score has few discrepancies, most people seeking bad credit mortgage refinance have accurate negative reports and they know it. Filing a dispute for something you know is true is not to your benefit and in fact may hinder your overall score in the long term to say nothing of it being illegal and can lead to fraud charges.

Correct Consumer Reporting Errors and Omissions

Real mistakes can be reported for FREE if you write a letter to the credit reporting agency, show proof of the mistake and enclose supporting documentation for consumer reporting companies like Equifax who will then investigate within 30 days and correct errors in your credit file. But that is for the minority.

Accurate Negative Credit Reports

The majority of people who seek to repair their credit before applying for mortgages with bad credit, know that the negative information in their reports are accurate and they simply wish to fix their credit and move ahead. This will occur naturally after 7 seven, or after 10 years in the case of a bankruptcy, but that is little consolation to someone who must refinance their home NOW. So, let me be clear, you can get a bad credit mortgage even if your credit is bad and even if your FICO scores are low. You will just have to pay a higher interest rate and perhaps have less credit available.

Change Your FICO Score

However, if you have 3 to 6 months before your mortgage must be renewed, you can do a lot to change your FICO score and alter your credit future.

1. Consolidate all your debt into one payment and pay your bills on time for 6 months and everything will change in your favor.
2. Contact your current bank or financial institution and see if your lender will reduce or even suspend your mortgage payments entirely for a few months to help you get on track. Don’t wait until you get foreclosure letters to talk to your bank. Banks know that people are in a crisis and are more than ever willing to make arrangements that work for their clients.

Communicate with Lenders

Honestly, the biggest problem isn’t making payments, but the fact that people don’t communicate with their lenders for fear of being slapped on the wrist. Don’t go to them with your tail between your legs looking for bad credit mortgage loans when it’s too late, instead sit down with someone and be honest and present a reasonable payment schedule and see what they say. Then when it comes time to renew you will be better shape and have a better FICO score because no one will have reported any defaulting payments or late payment history. Remember late payments constitute 35% of your FICO score! That is totally in your hands to remedy.

Looking for a new way to stop smoking? If you are like me then you have tried every stop smoking device on the market and have found them all to be just about as ineffective as each other. It doesn’t matter if you are trying nicotine gum, patches, quit smoking books or hypnosis, the results always seem to be the same you feel the initial surge of hope when you start your journey but very quickly find yourself having to use huge amounts of willpower to push the cravings to the back of your mind.

The problem is that when the cravings for cigarettes return you are inevitable to either go mad or eventually find your way back to the tobacco products that you love to hate, or is that, hate to love. Either way the vast majority of stop smoking attempts end in abject failure.

About 18 months ago a friend of mine introduced me to a device which excited me as soon as I saw it. It was the E cigarette, and this was a stop smoking aid that I knew was going to make the difference. The Electric Cigarette is a nicotine replacement therapy much like the nicotine inhaler you might have seen in the pharmacy but the difference is that this one actually feels like you are smoking tobacco and so gives you the satisfaction that is always missing in NRT and which drives most of us back to our filthy habit.

This electronic cigarette is battery powered and uses a component known as an atomizer to vaporize a nicotine and Propylene glycol mix when you inhale on the “filter”. As the vapor hits the back of your throat you will think you are smoking a newer cleaner version of your favorite tobacco and you’ll instantly get the satisfaction of your nicotine craving.

Although they will not be approved to be sold as a stop smoking device until the proper testing has been done, many smokers are already finding the electric cigarette to be a great ally in the effort to quit. Even if you only replace tobacco with one of these you will be going your body a favor as you will be cutting out the 4000 poisonous chemicals produced when burning tobacco.

I suggest if you are fed up being a slave to smoking and want to try an e cigarette buy one from one of the many retailers Online and you’ll find that your body will thank you for it almost immediately.